Weco45, 59

I was born in a small farming community in southern California. I am the middle child of two older sisters and two younger sisters. I am a honest person who loves total honesty above all else. I can't stand people who spread gossip, lie, cheat or steal. My likes and dislikes are too many to mention here, but here is some of the things I like: animals, music, art, gardening, and reading books. I left my family home when I was 17 years of age, and have been on my own ever since. Sometime in the mid- 1980's, my grandfather passed away, and since he was more like my "father" when I was growing up, it hit me very hard. I had a hard life growing up while living with a mental illness, but today things are much better. My only wish is that I had a friend here in "*" to share my life with.
Right now, I am not looking for a love connection, I am just looking for a gay male friend, who is honest and just wants to hang out with me from time to time, someone I can talk to on line also, and just be friends; with no pressure whatever about the other stuff. I think that you should be close to my age ( -3/ + 3 years is okay), and someone who is comfortable with themselves but isn't overtly gay. A person who does drugs is out of the question, but a little social drinking and smoking is okay.