Trulytopnotch, 44

Hey fellas, I am a nice normal guy here who is tired of the single life and the games guys seem to love to play with each other. I am approaching thirty and I want and need someone in my life who cares about me and can add to the happiness I have been building on my own. I am not interested in a one night stand or any type of h--k-p. I am interested in relationship-minded individuals. Please do not waste my time or yours. I am a secure and masculine man who is out to my friends and immediate family. I don't feel the need to broadcast who's in the bedroom when I close the door to the entire world. I am 5'10 210 my height and weight are definitely proportionate and I consider myself to be attractive. I am honest and direct. It is the only way I know to be and I find that grown men will appreciate that. I am not interested in any feminine or extra overweight men. Nothing against you but I have to be honest and these men are not attractive to me. A little pouch in the front never hurt anybody but you fellas know exactly what I am talking about. Physical attraction has to be there for us to go anywhere so I felt this had to be mentioned. I am not interested in the feminine man for a simple reason. If I wanted a feminine mate, I would date women. I do not and have not ever subscribed to the adage that just because we like what women like (MEN lol)we must act like them. This is not true and to me is certainly crazy. I am gainfully employed full time. I have my own vehicle and I have my own place. I am not seeking a millionaire or a model just someone who is ambitious, goal oriented, secure, and masculine. It doesn't matter where you are in your journey to reach your goal so long as you have one. Let's get our grown man on fellas. We must be more concerned with our character than our reputation. Character refers to what you think of yourself and reputation refers to what others think of you. If interested in me, please contact me and let's see what happens.