Redhead41, 54

I'm 41 years old. I'm still single. I have had relationships a few lasted more than 18-24 months. However the majority if not all of those partings were with no hard feelings. I'm looking for someone who shares most, not all, of the things I do. I don't want or need someone who will "Just go along to keep the piece". I want someone who feels that if I'm being unfair or unreasonable to OPEN UP AND SAY SO. Speak your mind. Because I sure do. I am the oldest sibling of 5. 1 full blood brother, a half sister, a stepsister, and a stepbrother. My family hails from all five burroughs of New York City. I am also a Gulf War Navy Vet (1991). I served aboard the Ammunition Ship USS Haleakala (AE-25). I have a BA in History from Western Washington University (2003). Times are tough so I have not been able to find employment for which my degree would benefit me. I have just been doing odd jobs since a friend who employed me was forced to lay me off to save his business. He's a great friend still.