Mattyr, 53

I'm sure that at one point in each person's life, one would think of finding the person that will complete one's life, and that the journey will be a long and arduous one (unless fate deals a better hand in that area!).

Let's face it...despite the happiness that we obtain from our parents and siblings, our friends, our job, our achievements etc., there's always that part of us that remains unfulfilled until we are holding him in our arms, and feeling that the jigsaw is finally complete with the right person.

For me, I'm at that very stage where I am questioning whether 'The One' is out there, waiting for me too, and trying to find me the way that I'm trying to find him.

I'm Malaysian, 39, working as a Consultant, studying part-time as a PhD candidate in a local university, and among my daily activities include keeping fit, enjoying movies (since they can teach us so much about life), listening to all types of music, and solving puzzles/games.

Physically, I've been told that I'm attractive, and personality-wise I am normally quiet, but friendly and always willing to help, intelligent, *nalytical/curious, and yet humanistic and considerate at the same time. I have a broad range of interests...languages, technology, sciences, etc. and for that reason I'd consider myself to be a Renaissance Man. To me, it's important for me to have a well-rounded knowledge of the world so that it's easier to see the big picture, and to then assist and improve the situation.

I am looking for someone who is attractive, athletic/fit, masculine, with a great smile and a warm personality, and who is willing to talk/chat with me about even the smallest of things and yet still makes for a truly satisfying discussion...interaction is important to me. He must also show that he cares about things around him, and not just about himself.

Until then, peace and may you be happy always!