Boylava, 69

I swore I would never go on the internet to find a friend but I have had more than my share of men with drama and baggage and frankly, maybe I've been short-changing myself by not being here. I still believe that there are good guys in the world and maybe you are here too. I still think, regardless of the horrible relationships that I've fallen in, that the best thing in the world is to fall in love with your best friend. I am stable, have a post-baccalaureate degree, enjoy thoughtful and real conversation, music, moonlight, sunsets and quality time. I am a mature-minded Polynesian man and wouldn't mind meeting the same or any decent, mature -minded man with a respectful attitude. I am not a good cook but am honest and would appreciate the same. I absolutely hate hidden agendas, secrets, and deciet. I've been through that and am not going to go through that again. Life is too short not to be real, kind, patient and not to have a sense of humor. I don't know what else to say but I'm reluctantly going to give this a try and see what happens!